Right when we’re in the mess and complexity of things - for example when raising children, or...
340: Your Task is to Undo the Barriers to Love
In a time of global distress, we’re often faced with news of dire situations far from us that we...
339: A Place for Others to Rest In
How can we be the ones who create safety for other people to bring their troubles, longings,...
On the ways comparison can steal the actual living of life from us, and on finding ways to...
On acknowledging experiences rather than moving away from them or interrupting them. How we...
How do we take up our right size in the world? Not in some fixed, rigid way but as a responsive...
So much changes in the course of a day, a year, a life. We can be mysteries to ourselves and to...
334: How to Hold the Questions of Others
How can we learn to love questions themselves as much as the answers we seek? And can we learn...
333: Nurturing the Goodness Within
As we encounter life we encounter all manner of different parts within us - and among them we...
332: Coaching and the Stories We Live In
In which we talk about integral development coaching, a way to work in profound and...
What might come if we could, as Julia Fehrenbacher writes, make a home inside ourselves, a...
When we’re children we often know intuitively something that as adults we forget - that there...
329: The Deliberate Scaffolding of Relationship
In our work as coaches, teachers, leaders and community makers, we have been finding anew over...
“I am a person who needs you to listen, simply listen, hear me say 'this is hard for me', not...
327: Let This Darkness Be a Bell Tower
“What is it like, such intensity of pain?” writes Rainer Maria Rilke. While we might ask one...
326: Urgent Message to a Friend in Pain
"Remember when you saw the stars of childhood, when you knelt alone and thought that they were...
325: The Ebb and Flow of Relationship
“When you love someone, you do not love them in exactly the same way all the time. It is an...
324: Taking Back Our Projections
When we freeze in public - giving a speech, or making a presentation - it's valuable to consider...
323: You Are Big Enough To Hold It All
We can easily live as if we're 'skating over the surface of life'. Sometimes that's an...
322: What To Love When You're Running Out of Things to Love
It’s not surprising, when we’re in difficulty or overstretched, to find ourselves tuning out of...
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